Private Β· Shadchan-led Β· A suggestion every week
A diamond is forever.
The shidduch process shouldn't be.
One thoughtful suggestion at a time β brought to you, not broadcast to everyone. You see a real rΓ©sumΓ© from the first look β name, background, family β while contact details and the most personal facts stay sealed until you both say yes. And your shadchan stays in the loop the whole way.
Nothing is shared without your yes. Pause or leave anytime β your data goes with you.
How it works
Quiet, respectful, one step at a time.
Tell us about you
A short intake β your background, your situation, and what matters most to you in a match. A few minutes now; refine it whenever you like.
Suggestions come to you
Each week, one to three carefully screened suggestions arrive in your inbox. Look closer, set one aside, or pass β your reasons shape what we bring you next.
Mutual yes β your shadchan steps in
Only when both sides say yes do names and details unlock, and your chosen shadchan makes the introduction the traditional way. No browsing. No awkward cold calls.
Built for our community
Not a dating site. A better way to do what we've always done.
Sealed until it matters
The other side sees your rΓ©sumΓ© β never your contact details. Phone, address, exact birthday, and children's names unlock only on a mutual yes. That's not a policy promise β the system is built so it can't show them early.
Your shadchan stays in charge
Vetted shadchanim review, suggest, and guide every match. The platform does the legwork; the people you trust make the shidduch.
Second marriages, handled with care
Divorced or widowed? The process accounts for children, halachic details, and the discretion your situation deserves.
You hold the keys
Choose who can see you, pause whenever you need to, and export or delete your data at any time β no phone calls required.
Simple, honest pricing
Start free. Upgrade when you're ready for weekly matched suggestions.
Open Door
$0
- Your private profile, on your terms
- Choose up to 3 shadchanim to work with
- Receive suggestions your shadchanim send
- Full privacy controls, always
The Search
$30/month
- Everything in Open Door
- 1β3 matched suggestions every week from our smart matching engine
- Your feedback on every pass sharpens the next round
- Cancel anytime β you keep access through what you've paid for
Questions families ask us
Is this a dating site?
No. There is no browsing, no swiping, and no public profiles. Suggestions are brought to you privately, one at a time, and every match is guided by a vetted shadchan β exactly like the traditional process, minus the weeks of waiting.
Who can see my information?
A suggestion works like a proper shidduch rΓ©sumΓ©: the other side sees your name, background, and family picture from the start β that's how real decisions get made. What stays sealed until a mutual yes: your contact details, exact birthday, and your children's names. You decide when your photo shows, and you can limit your profile so only the shadchanim you choose can see it at all.
I'm divorced or widowed β is this for me?
Very much so. The intake covers children, custody, and halachic details with the sensitivity they need, and matching accounts for your situation rather than treating it as an afterthought.
Do I need my own shadchan to join?
No β you choose from the vetted shadchanim on the platform (up to three). If you already work with one, ask them to join; matches you make here are theirs to guide.
Can I take a break or leave?
Anytime. Pause your visibility in Settings and no one new sees you; close your account and your data can be exported or permanently deleted β no phone call needed.